Well, this was my house at Thanksgiving. With the recent turn of events with some of my fsmily, this could be the last time. My Dad was right (on the day of my mom's funeral), my mom was by far the family peace maker. Now that she is not here our family is crumbling. To my family I love you all. I am sorry, Mom. This is beyond my control to hold together. Debbie, you are loved. No one should be put in a position to choose sides. My heart is breaking.